Adolescence is a period of transition from children to adults, a period of dramatic physical and psychological changes. During this period, male and female secondary sexual characteristics began to appear, boys appeared spermatogenic phenomenon, and girls appeared menarche. The age of puberty is generally 10-20 years old, and puberty in girls is generally 2 years earlier than that in boys. So, what should you pay attention to when it comes to sex as an adolescent?

What are the manifestations of teenagers entering adolescence？

1. Sudden increase in sexual awareness. Due to the physiological acceleration of sexual development, teenagers are particularly interested in sexual knowledge, have a strong desire to interact with the opposite sex, and the sense of curiosity and mystery of sex is increasing.

2. Rapid improvement of intellectual level, rapid development of accuracy and generality of problems, and gradual transition from image-based thinking to abstract logical thinking.

3. Self-awareness is strong and unstable. Increased independent desire, can make their own judgments and opinions on things, but the understanding and evaluation of self is too high or too low, often troubled by some contradictions, such as the conflict between the independent desire and the lack of independent ability, the contradiction between the "adult feeling" in their hearts and the "childish" in the eyes of adults.

4. The emotional world is stormy. Often showing childish emotional impulses and transient unstable states, loneliness, sadness, excitement, joy, anger are subtly intertwined to form a strong, wavering and discordant emotional world.

5, Increasingly extensive interests and curiosity, full of ideals, love life, positive, willing to participate in a variety of creative activities, competitive, adventurous and interesting activities is never tired.

6, Students in adolescence, gradually from the family dissociation, more communication with peers, activities, make like-minded students as close friends, they talk about everything, inseparable, regard friendship as the supreme, and even for friends at all costs. At the same time, puberty is the embryonic period of sexual psychology, which is shown as beginning to pay more attention to their own image, especially the evaluation of the opposite sex students, and also try to communicate with the opposite sex, but in the process of communication, the psychology has become very complex, on the one hand, eager to get close to each other, on the other hand, very afraid of others to find, as a result, the process of communication is mysterious, ashamed, but awkward; Under normal circumstances, they are not really in love, they just have a common language and like to communicate with each other and appreciate each other. However, due to their different performance, they become the talk of the students, and once the exaggerated treatment of the students, they become colored news, which makes the parties very embarrassed. In this way, the communication of the opposite sex students causes serious psychological burden. Many of them have a direct impact on study and life.

7. During this period, young people's emotions have expanded from the original love for their relatives to the respect and following of classmates, teachers, stars, scientists and leaders, from self-love to love the collective, love the hometown, love the people, love the motherland, love the whole mankind; In other words, teenagers' emotions fully reflect the sociality; At this time, their moral values have also changed, they worship successful people and celebrities, and hate bad people and bad things, they pursue fairness and justice, and once they find that someone has selfish thoughts, they will scorn, because they can not compromise and accommodate different opinions and things in real life, so it is easy to be hurt.

What should adolescent sex education pay attention to?

1. Prevent sexual relations with minors

The prevention of sexual relations between minors means that middle school students before the age of 18 should be "clean and self-loving". Because they are psychologically, socially, and economically immature, they cannot bear the consequences of sexual relations. The sexual desire and sexual impulse of young girls and boys is an instinctive physiological phenomenon, but in addition to sexual organ contact, there are other ways to release sexual pressure, such as shifting attention and actively participating in cultural and sports activities with the presence of the opposite sex.

2. Emergency contraception

3. Termination of pregnancy

Parents to tell young people that all kinds of contraceptive methods are not very reliable, once pregnant how to deal with, rather than for any sexual problems are not to talk about, adolescent children are more impulsive, sometimes because of impulse and fear of making a big mistake, parents do not want children on the wrong path, it is time to change their views on sex education. Provide advice to your children when they need their own help.

Pay attention to menstrual health care

Normal menstruation is one of the important signs of women's health, during menstruation, due to the decline of the body's defense function, people are easy to fatigue, easy to catch cold; At the same time, the wound formed by the intimal exfoliation of the ziyan, the cervical mouth is slightly opened, the pelvic congestion, the bacteria are also easy to invade the disease, so pay attention to menstrual hygiene.

1, Toilet paper (towel, belt) to clean, soft, vulva wash 1-2 times a day with warm water, special basin special towel, towels to wash frequently.

2, Take a bath to squat or stand, the best shower with conditions.

3, Should keep stool unobstructed, wipe stool should be wiped from front to back, so as not to pollute the vagina.

4, Pay attention to rest, prevent cold, less cold water, avoid strenuous exercise and physical labor.

5. Avoid raw foods and harsh foods.

6, Maintain a good mood, too much tension can lead to menstrual cycle disorder. In addition, dysmenorrhea is often related to mental, physical and other factors, so women suffering from dysmenorrhea should mentally eliminate fear and pay attention to menstrual health can generally heal themselves, serious people should go to the hospital for treatment.

Pay attention to breast care

Girls enter puberty, the first is breast development, generally 10-12 years old breast development; Mature at the age of 15-16: the breasts are basically shaped at the age of 18. Generally, when the maximum circumference (over the nipple) reaches 16cm, you must wear a bra, which can not only show the beauty of the female body, but also play a supporting role in the breast, ensure that the breast blood circulation is smooth, but also protect the nipple from bruising and hurting, making labor and exercise convenient. However, to avoid the chest bundle, let the breast develop normally, do not wear a bra too early, if the size of both breasts is found to be different or abnormal (such as lumps), you should go to the hospital for examination.

Spermatorrhea and wet dreams

When men reach puberty, the sexual organs begin to develop, the testicles begin to secrete androgens, sperm are produced, and secondary sexual characteristics begin to appear. "Full of essence is overflowing", or masturbation or wet dreams, began to have spermatogenesis. Wet dreams are the phenomenon of semen outflow caused by having or wanting to have sex with women who know or do not know each other in dreams. Generally, spermatogenesis 1-3 times per month is the normal range.

Generally, it is normal for adolescent males to enspermia 1-3 times per month, and "spermia is full and overflowing". Even wet dreams and masturbation are not surprising, and have no adverse effects on the body and marriage. But excess does hurt the body, and it can be demoralizing. The physiological changes and spermatogenesis of adolescent males are not understood, and under the influence of some pornographic books and films, they have repeatedly thought about spermatogenesis, so they are sluggish. After the sexual physiology and sexual psychological education of adolescence, the excess energy and sexual requirements of adolescence are guided to a healthy track, strengthen nutrition, strengthen exercise, and try to arrange life as colorful as possible, and should happily go through puberty.

Source:The subscription number of Chongqing High-tech Zone People's Hospital