The World Health Organization has mentioned the definition of health: one is to have a healthy body, two is to have a good mental state, and three is to have a good social adaptability.

So today also from these three aspects to answer the adolescent sexual development of the trouble, if there are missing questions, you can ask in the comment area.

Spermatogenic physiology:

Studies have shown that the age of sexual development and maturity of contemporary adolescents is significantly earlier, and the age of boys' first sperm loss is 13.55 years old, and in the actual work contact, this age is generally younger.

Spermatogenesis: refers to the phenomenon of ejaculation when there is no sexual activity and no masturbation behavior, which generally occurs in sleep and is called wet dream. If spermatospermia occurs during wakefulness, it is called spermatospermia.

Spermatogenesis is a common physiological phenomenon in adolescents. Don't worry too much. （The temperature of a man's testicles is lower than that of the rest of the body. When the testicles are affected by overheating, such as after bathing in warm water, spermatorrhea can occur at night. In addition, stimulation from contact with mattresses or blankets or overly tight clothing may also trigger spermatogenesis.)

The first spermatogenesis of middle school students appears as early as 11 years old, and most of them appear after 13 years old. In general, spermatogenesis 1-2 times a month (or more than a few times) are normal.

Psychological level: About 80% of adolescent males will lose sperm, 20% will not, which does not mean abnormal.

If spermatogenesis is too frequent, too few times, no spermatogenesis, etc., these problems trouble the child, cause the child anxiety, the child should communicate directly with the parents, go to the hospital to check. It's usually normal growth and development. The purpose of seeing a doctor is to make your child more aware of his or her physical condition and relieve anxiety.

Hand 0.0 Sexual physiology:

Hand 0.0 sex is to rely on their own ability to solve sexual fullness, vent sexual energy, to meet their needs for sex.

For example, many PE teachers do not allow students to take a hot bath at home before a PE exam, because a hot bath can relax the body and relieve muscle soreness, but correspondingly, the muscle memory is eroded, which will greatly affect the next day's PE performance.

The effect of hand sex is also like this, it will relax the mood for a short time and get an emotional comfort. But chronic, frequent masturbation does affect attention, memory, and comprehension.

It is generally accepted that less than four times a month is an acceptable range.

Psychological level:

In general, when teenagers move, in order to fear their parents to see or other factors, they expect a quick decision, one is that they will have a "fast" hint to themselves in the length of time, and the other is that they will work harder. These can cause some problems in the child's sexual experience as they grow older (for example, the sexual stimulation is not strong or the sex is too short).

Teens and younger may be exposed to pornography, videos or GIFs with sexual content, etc. This is what parents need to pay attention to, the need to pay attention to the child's ideological trend in time, give the child the correct knowledge guidance.

Spermatospermia and hand 0.0 sexual matters need attention:

① After the work, wipe the semen with a tissue, clean the local skin in time, and change the underwear;

② The underwear under the change is cleaned in time and dried in the sun

③ You can choose to wear loose pants and actively participate in sports activities;

④ Wash the vulva with warm water before going to bed to remove the foreskin to reduce irritation;

To realize that sexual maturity is spontaneous and not controlled by human consciousness, teenagers should not mistake spermatorrhea or hand sex as a manifestation of ideological impure and moral corruption, and do not give themselves unnecessary ideological pressure

(In addition, hand 0.0 sex needs to choose a safe space to prevent the formation of psychological disorders after being disturbed)

Social aspects of adolescents:

12-14 years old students have begun to pay attention to the opposite sex and have an interest in the opposite sex, have a good impression. This is natural, there is no need for psychological pressure. But there are a few things to be careful about in public social situations.

1. Avoid opening a yellow cavity. Teenagers are ignorant about the topic of sex, and some boys have no sense of boundaries when making jokes about sex. Even for their close friends, it can cause them trouble.

Even less so when a guy makes a dirty joke to a girl. Such jokes will not improve your position in the hearts of the opposite sex, but will be quickly deducted from the impression.

2. Focus on social distancing. The social distance between friends and classmates is (0.5~1.2 meters), and the closer the feelings, the closer the distance, and vice versa. Teenagers have a good impression of the opposite sex in the class, which is very natural, there is no need to have psychological pressure. However, in terms of behavioral distance, it is still necessary to leave a comfortable social distance for each other. If you show too much intimacy, the opposite sex will be disturbed by your behavior. It doesn't help your relationship any further.

3. Erection treatment in public places. Get into the habit of carrying tissues with you. Clothes as far as possible to choose loose format, such as in public accidental erection, do not use the hand to touch, the application of clothing to do a slight cover, deep breathing, maintain a stable state of mind. Wait for the awkward time to pass. Do not have too much psychological pressure, this is also a very normal situation, very common in teenagers.

4, same-sex or heterosexual any behavior that makes you uncomfortable to stop in time. During the development and growth of adolescents, there will be curiosity and exploratory behavior about sex. This is understandable. But when classmates or others are overly intimate with you, stop them in time. Be brave enough to protect your rights and interests. If you can't solve it, inform your teachers and parents immediately, or seek social support.

5. Understand the nature of sexual relationships. In a sexual relationship, the most important thing is love and understanding. Men and women need to respect and understand each other; Whether it is in the process of sexual behavior, or in the process of getting along, communication and understanding are the most important

May the students continue to make progress in learning and enrich themselves in growth, and may joy and laughter accompany your wonderful life forever.

Source:One heart for the health of the whole people